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Thursday, October 9, 2008

Girlfriends



I have three best friends and I love them to death!! There have been times in my life when I do not know what I would have done or how I could have gone on without them. I am a very lucky person to have these three special chicks in my life!!! Men come and go but your girls are there FOREVER!
My girls are all special to me in there own way and thankfully they all like each other and not jealous of the other one which you know sometimes can cause it's own drama!

Let me tell you a little about them and they are only in alphabetical order.....

Kristy - my partner in crime, we just feed off of each other and sometimes it gets us into trouble. We both have terrible road rage and you better watch out if we are in the car together (I won't share any of those stories, those are just between she and I).....LOL.
She loves me no matter what and there have been times when she has wanted to kill me or vice versa. We are both strong headed and very opinionated women but we do find a mutual ground!
Even though I divorced her cousin, she managed to remain neutral and still is my friend. I do feel guilty sometimes as I feel that her keeping her friendship with me cost her some family members who she used to be close to. She never took sides as she knows that there are three sides to every story, his, hers and the truth.
She has been there for me for the last 15 years and I don't know what I would do without her. She has seen me at my best and at my very lowest when I didn't even want to go on when I lost my baby. Her laugh is infectious and if has your back , then life is all good. I am honored to call her my friend and I love her very, very much!!!

Lachelle - I love this chick!! She has shown me how to be a better person just by her goodness and strength. She had to grow up very fast as she became a young mother and had to endure more heartbreak and tragedy than any young person should have to. She has scarified a lot to make sure that her children are taken care of unselfishly.
When we first met, I kinda thought she was stuck up but after riding the bus to school together every day I got to know her and found out she was a pretty cool.
She and I have been through a whole lot together and no matter what stupid thing I say or do, she still loves me.
We had a few wild times in our younger days (that are just between she and I...LOL!!) and we came out just fine.
She has a loving and forgiving heart and I think that she has finally found someone who deserves her. I pray that this is true and that he will treat her right.
Even though she moved far away, we are still close and she is still one of the first people I call when something good or bad is going on in my life. I wish that I could see her more but I know that she and I will always be friends no matter how many miles are between us! I love her very , very much!

Robin - she has been my best friend since 1st grade. We have had our share of fights and make ups as all school friends do but now we are closer than ever. She is also my partner in crime and we tend to get into a little bit of trouble too! I think that I bring out her wild side just a little bit!! She knows me like a true open book as we have grown up together. We can tell just what the other needs and doesn't need and we are really good at reading between the lines!

We have been through are share of heartbreaks together and I don't know what I would have done without her. She and her brothers are family to me and I love them very much.
For a while, due to my own stupidity of putting a man first, we lost touch which made me very sad.
Luckily, her mom came into where I work one day and needless to say we are back in touch and loving every minute of it. She says that she gets strength from me but I get it from her too.


I truly love these women with all of my heart and hope that everyone can have true friends like this in their life!

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